Expecting Parents & Baby Gifts

Celebrate the mom and dad to be with these pregnancy gifts and baby gifts! It's best to rely on registries (especially for baby showers), but if you'd like to send a congratulatory gift during the pregnancy or after the baby arrives, these are the best gifts for expecting parents. If you're not sure what to get, try something edible! Who doesn't love a bagel? Help celebrate the parents and their little cutie with thoughtful gifts — read the full Q&A below.

Expecting Parents and Baby Gifts Q&A

What are the most thoughtful gifts for parents to be?

Expecting parents have a lot on their mind, and in the mom's case — a lot happening to her body! Thoughtful gifts will help make their life easier or make them feel supported. If the couple has a gift registry, buy from their wishlist. They have their eyes set on those items and are asking for family/friends to help with those purchases. But if they don't have a registry yet, consider these practical, functional and fun celebratory gifts.

What should I keep in mind when picking out a gift for expecting parents and babies?

Ask yourself,

  • What is the best time to send this gift? If you're likely to attend their baby shower you can wait until then and buy a registry item to ensure they get the most practical gifts. If you'd like to get extra gifts, timing may depend on the item (for example, a framed photo after the baby is born) or during pregnancy (if they had a hard first trimester you can surprise them with a pick-me-up).
  • Is there a chance they may already have this item? Although surprises are fun, they may be getting a lot of unnecessary gifts so try to be practical.

What should I write in a card to expecting parents?

  • I am so excited to watch you both shine as parents!
  • This baby has a lifetime of love ahead.
  • Wishing you an easy pregnancy and healthy baby.
  • It would be an honor if you leaned on me as I would love to be there for your family.
  • I hope to drop off a homemade meal, I'm thinking ... unless you have any requests?
  • Please give me a call if you need a babysitter or listener! I want to hear what's going on and be an active part of your support system.

What can I say to someone after a miscarriage?

Write from the heart. Ask yourself what words would provide you with comfort during this heartbreaking time? What you say may vary person to person. Be sensitive to their own belief system and experiences.

  • I am so sorry you have to know this pain.
  • I am sorry for your loss.
  • You are on my mind.
  • Sending my love.
  • Big, long hug.
  • You have a friend in me, please lean on me.
  • I will check in again soon in hopes that I can be a good listener, or just easy company. Please be honest with me on what sounds helpful as I try to support you during this difficult time.
  • I imagine your world feels upside down right now. I hope you know you have my love and support.

Avoid saying

  • It wasn’t meant to be.
  • You can try again.
  • At least (it happened early, you're young, etc.)
  • Everything happens for a reason.

Finding Gifts That Show You Care

  • Listen for Hints

    Watch them as they browse stores or make offhand comments at home... it's like they're writing their wishlist. Take notes or a photo to remember!

  • Lookout for Needs

    Notice what needs fixing, replacing or upgrading — it's bound to be practical... not to mention sweet of you to notice.

  • Write a Card

    Visit your local bookshop to find a cute card and tell them what you love most about them and your relationship.

Blog: How to Be a More Thoughtful Gift Giver

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