Collection: Host Gifts

Whether attending a party, visiting a vacation home or joining for a special home-cooked dinner, they'll be touched that you're showing your appreciation! Great hosting gifts can be quickly opened and put away so it doesn't distract them from their responsibilities. Review our full Q&A for picking out the best host gift below.

Host Gifts Q&A

What makes a thoughtful host gift?

Host gifts show your appreciation for their hospitality! A host gift is different than bringing a contribution for the night (like wine or an appetizer).

  • Personal gifts let them know you understand them and their interests (for example, cooks may love getting a nice bottle of olive oil or gourmet ingredients/snacks).
  • Generic gifts like quality hand soap and pretty houseplants make great host gifts! Or even better, ask if you can bring a floral centerpiece for the occasion and work with a local florist.
  • As you're being hosted, be attentive to pick up on hints for next time (or to send something after the event).
  • Consider reciprocating the hosting if you can, or emphasizing your appreciation verbally or with a card.

How much should a host gift cost?

The sweet spot is probably ~$30 for a single event (like a big dinner party, holiday gathering, tailgate, etc.). If they are hosting for multiple days/nights, then consider spending closer to $100 (or ~$30/night as a rough estimate). If they tell you not to get them anything, follow their guidelines. Otherwise, they likely recognize and appreciate that you are showing your gratitude! Finances vary by person so do what feels right to you. Hosts generally do not expect a gift, and they certainly would not want you to over-extend yourself.

What should I keep in mind when picking out a host gift?

Ask yourself,

  • For home items, does this style resemble other items they have picked out? Pay attention to preferences like color schemes and materials (organic vs glitzy).
  • For consumable gifts, do they have any allergies/preferences that need to be kept in mind? For example, are they allergic to tree nuts or sober or gluten-free?
  • If coming for an extended stay, can you offer to treat to a dinner out or cook one night? Communicate in advance to avoid confusion/awkwardness. Let them know you want to be a good guest!

What should I write in my thank you card?

  • I always have so much fun at your gatherings.
  • I am so appreciative of you opening up your home and treating me to such a delicious homemade meal.
  • It's so nice that you gather all of us to...
  • I can't imagine spending my holidays without your cooking and our family traditions.
  • These are the nights that I cherish most.
  • Listen for Hints

    Watch them as they browse stores or make offhand comments at home... it's like they're writing their wishlist. Take notes or a photo to remember!

  • Lookout for Needs

    Notice what needs fixing, replacing or upgrading — it's bound to be practical... not to mention sweet of you to notice.

  • Write a Card

    Visit your local bookshop to find a cute card and tell them what you love most about them and your relationship.